Most families have some periods of time where functioning is impaired by stressful circumstances. Negative patterns of parental behavior tend to be dominant in their children's lives. Other parents over-function, never allowing their children to grow up and be on their own. Others are inconsistent or violate basic boundaries of appropriate behavior. Controlling parents fail to allow their children to assume responsibilities appropriate for their age. These parents continue dominating and making decisions for their children well beyond the age at which this is necessary. Controlling parents are often driven by a fear of becoming unnecessary to their children.
The king can't be embarrassed like that and still be a powerful king.