Austin defines
early 19th century courtship in England as one of the many ways to
abuse love as a means for social promotion to eventually reach the ultimate
goal: marriage. However, Elizabeth
understands the authentic meaning of marriage and separates the force of love
from the distorting effects of hierarchical society. Throughout Mr. Collins’
proposal, he refuses to accept Elizabeth’s rejection and accuses her of playing
the usual game young ladies play: “rejecting the addresses of the man whom they
secretly mean to accept,” (76). However, Elizabeth advanced mindset
distinguishes the difference between marrying for a social upgrade and marrying
for love. She intellectually recognizes her avant-garde perspective of
courtship and affirms the type of woman she is with conviction: “I do assure
you that I am not one of those young ladies who are so daring as to risk their
happiness on the chance of being asked a second time… Nay, were your friend
Lady Catherine to know me, I am persuaded she would find me in every respect
ill qualified for the situation” (77). Her lively wit and sarcastic tone
reflects how she never discredits her morals and integrity. She acknowledges
the absurdity in woman who will risk their own happiness for a marriage that
only promises wealth and social prosperity. Elizabeth preferably abides to a
marriage fulfilled by romantic prosperity. Despite Elizabeth possessing a sharp
tongue that tends to make judgmental remarks, her honest and clever response to
Mr. Collins’ proposal also provides courtesy. Although society regards
Elizabeth’s virtue as idealistic and corrupt, she whole-heartedly discovers
herself to be a candid, rational young woman, rising above the folly and
misdemeanor of society: “I thank you again and again for the honour you have
done me in your proposals, but to accept them is absolutely impossible. My
feelings in every respect forbid it. Do not consider me now as an elegant
female intending to plague you, but as a rational creature speaking the truth
from the heart” (78). Elizabeth is independent and mature and desires to be
looked upon as so. Mr. Collins’ misconception of Elizabeth being a naïve,
desperate woman brain-washed by the expectations of society, motivates him even
more to regard his proposal as only a business transaction. His self-pride and
boastful indiscretion conflict with Elizabeth’s desire to marry for love,
unlike her friend Charlotte who chooses to solely marry for convenience.
Elizabeth cannot comprehend the concept of Charlotte being happy in a marriage
based on security. Elizabeth views herself more prudent than Charlotte, whereas
Charlotte accepts that she must take advantage of any opportunity that presents
itself in order to refrain from the societal disdain that accompanies old
maiden status. Elizabeth’s shock and disappointment in Charlotte reveals how
stubborn Elizabeth is to fathom that there may be an opinion different from her
own: “She had always felt that Charlotte’s opinion of matrimony was not exactly
like her own, but she could not have supposed it possible that when called into
action, she would have sacrificed every better feeling to worldly advantage”
(90).
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